Fix rollback of pointer operator[] for unusual object and string types

Follow-up to the strong exception guarantee of the non-const
operator[](json_pointer):

- get_unchecked_create assumed that emplace() always inserts the key that
  the walk did not find. For object types whose lookup and emplace()
  disagree (e.g. a copied fifo_map), nothing was inserted, the rollback
  erased the existing member, and the walk continued with a value of the
  wrong type (assertion, type_error.305, or a crash). It now checks the
  result of emplace(), arms the rollback only if a key was inserted, and
  otherwise continues the walk with the member found, as basic_json's
  operator[] does: such pointers throw out_of_range.404 and leave the value
  unchanged, as before the strong guarantee.
- The rollback erased the inserted key by key, which converts string_t to
  object_t::key_type and may allocate inside a noexcept function
  (std::terminate on bad_alloc with custom key types). It now erases by the
  iterator emplace() returned, and shrinks a grown array with erase() at
  the end instead of resize(). The documentation states the remaining
  requirement for custom template parameters.
- Creating values no longer calls string_t::begin(), so the non-const
  operator[](json_pointer) compiles with string types that lack it (as the
  alternative string type of the tests).
- Correct the @throw lists of get_unchecked and get_unchecked_create.

Signed-off-by: Niels Lohmann <mail@nlohmann.me>

tests/src/unit-alt-string.cpp

@@ -373,6 +373,23 @@ TEST_CASE("alternative string type")
         CHECK_FALSE(j.contains(alt_json::json_pointer("/foo/bar")));
     }
 
+    SECTION("non-const operator[](json_pointer)")
+    {
+        // creating values must compile without string_t::begin()
+        alt_json j = alt_json::parse(R"({"a":{"b":[1]},"c":null})");
+        const alt_json before = j;
+        j[alt_json::json_pointer("/a/b/3/x/-/y")] = 1; // pad, append, create
+        j[alt_json::json_pointer("/a/z")] = 2;         // insert a key
+        j[alt_json::json_pointer("/c/0/q")] = 3;       // convert null
+        j[alt_json::json_pointer("/a/b/-")] = 4;       // append
+        CHECK(j.dump() == R"({"a":{"b":[1,null,null,{"x":[{"y":1}]},4],"z":2},"c":[{"q":3}]})");
+
+        // a failing access leaves the value unchanged
+        alt_json k = before;
+        CHECK_THROWS_AS(k[alt_json::json_pointer("/a/n/99999999999999999999999")], alt_json::out_of_range&);
+        CHECK(k == before);
+    }
+
     SECTION("operator/(std::size_t)")
     {
         // json_pointer::operator/=(std::size_t) must compile without string_t