Share the diagnostic-position setter of the DOM SAX parsers

json_sax_dom_parser and json_sax_dom_callback_parser each had a private
copy of handle_diagnostic_positions_for_json_value(), identical except
for comments. Move the body into one static member function,
detail::diagnostic_positions::set_from_lexer(value, lexer), which both
classes call with their lexer pointer. basic_json befriends the new
struct (only when JSON_DIAGNOSTIC_POSITIONS is enabled), as the position
members are private.

The discarded case is reached through the callback parser, so the
LCOV_EXCL markers that only the dom parser's copy had are gone. The
NOLINT on the unreachable default case loses the stray
"-warnings-as-errors", which is not a check name.

The start-position setup in start_object()/start_array() is left alone,
as #5706 is editing the callback parser's versions.

Behavior, the public API and the ABI are unchanged.

Part of #5712

Signed-off-by: Niels Lohmann <mail@nlohmann.me>

include/nlohmann/json.hpp

@@ -149,6 +149,9 @@ class basic_json // NOLINT(cppcoreguidelines-special-member-functions,hicpp-spec
     friend class ::nlohmann::detail::json_sax_dom_parser;
     template<typename BasicJsonType, typename InputAdapterType>
     friend class ::nlohmann::detail::json_sax_dom_callback_parser;
+#if JSON_DIAGNOSTIC_POSITIONS
+    friend struct ::nlohmann::detail::diagnostic_positions;
+#endif
     friend class ::nlohmann::detail::exception;
 
     /// workaround type for MSVC