Add JSON_DISABLE_TUPLE_REFERENCE_CONVERSION to fix std::tuple conversions

basic_json can be constructed from std::tuple<json&>, which it turns into
a one-element array. Because of this, std::tuple picks its converting
constructor that converts the whole source tuple instead of the
element-wise one. As a result, std::tuple<const json&> built from
std::forward_as_tuple(j) binds to a temporary (a compile error with libc++,
a dangling reference with other standard libraries), and std::tuple<json>
built the same way holds [j] instead of a copy of j.

The new opt-in macro JSON_DISABLE_TUPLE_REFERENCE_CONVERSION (CMake option
JSON_DisableTupleReferenceConversion) removes the conversion from a
one-element tuple holding a reference to the same basic_json type, so
std::tuple converts element-wise. It is off by default, so existing
behavior is unchanged. It does not change any function body and therefore
is not part of the ABI tag.

Fixes #2226

Signed-off-by: Niels Lohmann <mail@nlohmann.me>

include/nlohmann/json.hpp

@@ -1595,7 +1595,12 @@ class basic_json // NOLINT(cppcoreguidelines-special-member-functions,hicpp-spec
     template < typename CompatibleType,
                typename U = detail::uncvref_t<CompatibleType>,
                detail::enable_if_t <
-                   !detail::is_basic_json<U>::value && detail::is_compatible_type<basic_json_t, U>::value, int > = 0 >
+                   !detail::is_basic_json<U>::value && detail::is_compatible_type<basic_json_t, U>::value
+#if JSON_DISABLE_TUPLE_REFERENCE_CONVERSION
+                   // see https://github.com/nlohmann/json/issues/2226
+                   && !detail::is_basic_json_reference_tuple<basic_json_t, U>::value
+#endif
+                   , int > = 0 >
     basic_json(CompatibleType && val) noexcept(noexcept( // NOLINT(bugprone-forwarding-reference-overload,bugprone-exception-escape)
                 JSONSerializer<U>::to_json(std::declval<basic_json_t&>(),
                                            std::forward<CompatibleType>(val))))