Reduce test compile times (spike)

Two changes roughly halve the CPU time needed to build the unit tests
(clang 21: ~300 s -> ~150 s, GCC 16: ~750-820 s -> ~395-420 s, Debug):

- Move the C++14/17/20-dependent tests into separate
  unit-<name>-cpp<N>.cpp files. A test file is built for every standard
  whose JSON_HAS_CPP_<N> macro it mentions, so far whole large files were
  rebuilt for C++14/17/20 because of a few #ifdef sections. The main files
  are now built for C++11 only; the ci_test_*_cxx<N> jobs still build
  every file for every standard.

- Add the CMake option JSON_TestUnityBuild (ON by default, OFF with
  MinGW): compatible test files are compiled in batches as one
  translation unit so they share the template instantiations of the
  library. Each file keeps its own CTest test, which runs the batch
  executable filtered to that file's test cases. The binary-format tests
  form an explicit group; the rest is batched by JSON_TestUnityBatchSize.

Fix the name clashes that merging files exposed, document the rules for
test files in tests/README.md, and point CONTRIBUTING.md to it.

Signed-off-by: Niels Lohmann <mail@nlohmann.me>

tests/src/unit-std-format.cpp

@@ -6,12 +6,10 @@
 // SPDX-FileCopyrightText: 2013-2026 Niels Lohmann <https://nlohmann.me>
 // SPDX-License-Identifier: MIT
 
-// cmake/test.cmake selects the C++ standard versions with which to build a
-// unit test based on the presence of JSON_HAS_CPP_<VERSION> macros.
-// When using macros that are only defined for particular versions of the standard
-// (e.g., JSON_HAS_FILESYSTEM for C++17 and up), please mention the corresponding
-// version macro in a comment close by, like this:
-// JSON_HAS_CPP_<VERSION> (do not remove; see note at top of file)
+// cmake/test.cmake builds a unit test with C++ standards beyond C++11 only if the
+// source file mentions the corresponding version macro. This whole file tests
+// std::format (C++20), so it cannot be split: it is built for C++20 as well:
+// JSON_HAS_CPP_20 (do not remove)
 
 #include "doctest_compatibility.h"
 
@@ -19,7 +17,6 @@
 using json = nlohmann::json;
 using ordered_json = nlohmann::ordered_json;
 
-// JSON_HAS_CPP_20 (do not remove; see note at top of file)
 #if JSON_HAS_STD_FORMAT
 
 #include <iterator>