Move to_bson's binary subtype check into calc_bson_sizes (#5703)

to_bson() rejected a binary value's subtype above 255 (out_of_range.415)
in write_bson_binary(), which only has the binary_t, not the basic_json
value that holds it, so the exception was created with no JSON_DIAGNOSTICS
context even though the equivalent to_msgpack() check names the value's
path. The check also ran after the document size, all preceding elements,
and this element's header and length had already reached the output
adapter, so a caller-provided std::vector or std::string ended up holding
a truncated document.

calc_bson_sizes() already walks every value before anything is written,
to size embedded documents and arrays and to reject invalid keys
(out_of_range.409) up front. The subtype check now runs there instead,
in calc_bson_binary_size(), which is given the basic_json value so the
exception can use it as context. The now-redundant check in
write_bson_binary() is removed, since calc_bson_sizes() always throws
first if any binary value in the document has an oversized subtype.

Fixes #5675.

Signed-off-by: Niels Lohmann <mail@nlohmann.me>

docs/mkdocs/docs/api/basic_json/to_bson.md

@@ -43,6 +43,9 @@ Strong guarantee: if an exception is thrown, there are no changes in the JSON va
 - Throws [`out_of_range.412`](../../home/exceptions.md#jsonexceptionout_of_range412) if the length of a document, array,
   string, or binary value exceeds the range of the 32-bit BSON length field; example:
   `"BSON length 2147483661 exceeds maximum of 2147483647"`
+- Throws [`out_of_range.415`](../../home/exceptions.md#jsonexceptionout_of_range415) if the subtype of a binary value
+  exceeds 255, the maximum of the BSON binary subtype; example:
+  `"subtype 70000 is too large for the BSON binary subtype (max 255)"`
 
 ## Complexity
 
@@ -78,3 +81,4 @@ pass before anything is written.
 
 - Added in version 3.4.0.
 - Linear in the size of `j`, and no longer limited by the call stack for deeply nested values, since version 3.13.0.
+- `out_of_range.415` is now detected before anything is written, like the other exceptions above, since version 3.13.0.